Talking about a care home with an elderly loved one can be an emotional time for the whole family. Read on for helpful tips.

Going into care can be a difficult subject to discuss. But if you have genuine concerns for a loved one’s safety and welfare, then talking about a care home and their future care options is a necessary conversation to have.

Talk about care while there’s time.

The sooner you talk about a care home, the sooner you can identify any hesitations your loved one may have. This also gives them time to consider all the available options and the one that benefits them. Subsequently, it avoids having to make a rushed decision because their living situation has become critical.

Include your siblings.

Involve as many family members as possible. This way, everyone can support the decisions made and responsibilities can be shared.

Be patient.

If your loved one is reluctant to broach on the subject, maybe try and kindly ask why they don’t want to talk about care. Maybe they would rather talk to a friend or medical professional.

Ask them how they feel.

They may be in denial that they need any help or increased care. One reason for this may be a fear of losing independence. Try to understand their situation and reassure them you’re only trying to help and make life easier for them.

If you would like more help, please feel free to contact any one of our managers at our Southcare Homes for some friendly advice with no-obligation.

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